Posts tagged sexism.

Laura Hudson Takes Down the Portrayals of Catwoman and Starfire in the New DCU ›

thetaylordetroye:

miseryxchord:

This is not about these women wanting things; it’s about men wanting to see them do things, and that takes something that really should be empowering — the idea that women can own their sexuality — and transforms it into yet another male fantasy. It takes away the actual power of the women and turns their “sexual liberation” into just another way for dudes to get off. And that is at least ten times as gross as regular cheesecake, minimum.

And

In many ways, the constant barrage of this type of imagery (and characterization) is not unlike the sh*tty neighborhood I used to live in where every time I walked down the street, random people I didn’t know shouted obscene comments about my body and told me they wanted to have sex with me. And you know, maybe a lot of those guys thought they were complimenting me. Maybe they thought I had tried to look pretty that day and they were telling me I had succeeded in that goal. Maybe they thought we were having a frank and sexually liberated exchange of ideas. I’m willing to be really, really generous and believe that’s where they were coming from. But in the end, it doesn’t matter that they didn’t know it was creepy; it doesn’t matter that they “didn’t get it,” because every single day I lived there they made me feel like less of a person.

That is how I feel when I read these comics.

My emphasis in bold. This is just more comic porn for dudes, not empowered female characters for women to connect with.

Dressing it up as, and stridently arguing that it IS empowering for women, is what makes it even grosser than the usual barrage of comic porn for dudes.

for turhan

whoa… I didn’t know those bikini panels were from the actual issue. I thought they were just mocking it. I can’t deal with this. And I was excited as hell about both the titles too. Especially Selina’s.

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Think women have achieved equality? Think again. ›

****TRIGGER WARNING for discussion of sexual assault****** Rape Culture 101

hipsteranonymous:

Rape Culture 101:

After I was date-raped, I had to explain to the authorities:

-what outfit I wore

-what I drank

-what I ate

-what I said

-if I crossed my legs

-how I laughed

-if I laughed

-the makeup I wore

-what underwear I wore

-who I talked to

-what bar I went to

-who my friends are

-what type of car I drive

-what type of shoes I wore

-if I wore tights

-how many sexual partners I have had

-my sexual orientation

-the age I lost my virginity

-if I was wearing perfume

-the color of my hair

-if I said “no”

-when I said “no”

-how I said “no”

-how many times I said “no”

-why it was in my bed

-why I had no bruises

-why his number was programmed in my phone

-why we were friends on facebook

-why I said yes to a date

-why I let him pay

-why I went to class the next day

-if I showered

-why I didn’t stop him

After he raped me, he had to explain:

nothing.  because they never asked him.

“Rape culture” is living a society where rape is defined by the circumstances rather than the action.

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Shakesville breaks down all the victim-blaming bullshit in that NYT article. ›

stfurapeculture:

Exactly on point. Please sign the petition telling the NYT to apologize for this.

#Sexism  #Link  

Rape isn’t a ‘natural hazard’ like a cliff edge that women must be careful to avoid when drunk - it is a wilful act of violence perpetrated by another human being and the responsibility lies with the perpetrator not the victim. Drinking alcohol is not illegal or wrong. Perpetrators are in control of their actions. A woman is never responsible for a man raping her. But society’s morals and logic currently display a yogic ability to bend over backwards to accommodate, accept and normalise the reality of violence against women. Studies show that people who display high levels of sexism are more likely to accept the idea that women can be to blame when a man rapes them. This propensity to blame victims and often to absolve the perpetrators allows the cultures that breed sexist violence to go unchallenged. Victim-blaming must also end for the real cause of sexist violence - gender inequality - to come into full view.

The Equality Illusion, Kat Banyard (via petitefeministe)

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When the entire world teaches you that there’s only one slot for a woman on a team (I remember thinking that there could never be more than two female Power Rangers at a time because it was a law or something of the Rangerverse) or that you’re less interesting unless you’re the hero’s girlfriend and that you’re not worth the camera time otherwise or that there’s only a limited amount of moments you get where you’re the center of attention because we have to get back to the Real Story About The Menfolk and their Manpain, then fuck yes, you do develop that hatred towards other women as a defensive mechanism.

[TRIGGER WARNING: RAPE CULTURE]


Eight percent of college men have either attempted or successfully raped. Thirty percent say they would rape if they could get away with it. When the wording was changed to “force a woman to have sex,” the number jumped to 58%. Worse still, 83.5% argue that “some women look like they are just asking to be raped.

Margo Paine, Ph.D. (Body Wars)

This is appalling, and one of many reasons why I publicly identify as a male feminist. 

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^ same.

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THIS SHOULD MATTER TO YOU!

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This needs to change.

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Do all female super-hero costumes come equipped with boob slots?

#Sexism  

But what most men don’t realize is that all women in our society are on the receiving end of UNWANTED sexual attention at some point in their lives, and most of them get it a lot. Women are catcalled on the street. They’re harassed in bars, groped in clubs, and whistled at in the grocery store. They’re told that they need to be sexy to be valued and then they’re attacked as sluts. Simply put, women put up with sexual intrusion for most of their lives, in big ways and small. It happens everywhere and most men have no idea how much of an impact it has. I’ve heard quite a few men say that women should just take it as a compliment. Ironically, these are often the same guys who lose it if a man cruises them, winks at them, or simply appears to be sexually interested in them. Seems like a double standard to me.

Charlie Glickman, The Most Important Thing That Men Who Have Sex With Women Need to Know (via tulletulle)

I might have reblogged this before. Oh well.

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More women than men discuss sexism, and it is not because we find the topic more fun, entertaining, or enjoyable than men. It is because sexism gets in the way of our freedom. I blog about sexism in geek culture not because it’s my passion, but because it gets in the way of my passions. My struggle against my marginalization is not my hobby.